Stop Crying Or I Ll Give You Something To Cry About This Grateful Mama Grateful for my presence. relaxing in the arms of someone who let him just be. what a glorious picture of how our father in heaven longs to envelop us in his arms and comfort our very souls. instead of giving something more to cry about, lets extend grace and patience. instead of teaching them to stifle emotion, lets give freedom to express. If you were told, “stop crying, or i’ll give you something to cry about,” here’s what you learned: 1. the world is a dangerous place. if mommy or daddy or grandma or the babysitter threatens to make you cry, what might a stranger do? trust is necessary for healthy relationships. children learn to trust others by experiencing safety with.
When Ur Mom Say Stop Crying Or I Ll Give You Something To Cry I say the words before i even know what i’m doing. “stop crying or i’ll give you something to cry about.” my son stops crying and in the sweetest, most innocent, voice, a voice full of hope and wonder says “yeah daddy? what are you gonna give me?” i realized i now had a chance to change directions. to not be as terrible as my own. I’ve never seen my mother cry. i never hope to see her, but all the same i’d rather see. my mother cry than be her. “stop crying or i’ll give you something to really cry about,” my mother said to me again and again all throughout my childhood. whether i was blinking back tears because she wouldn’t let me have a second piece of birthday cake, sniffling over a scraped knee, or all. Just stop!’. or maybe you heard it as a child? “don’t be silly”. “shh, everyone is looking at you”. “stop that noise, right now!”. “stop crying or i’ll give you something to cry about!”. but what if i told you that every time you dismiss or minimise your child’s feelings, you actually make your job harder. Scenario 1: a father (or mother) says to a child, “stop crying or i’ll give you something to cry about!”. he or she is wielding a belt across the child’s behind. scenario 2: a mother (or.
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